❤️ Soul Nudge: You Were Never Broken. You're Brilliant.🌟

The very fact that you question your goodness means that your heart is trying to get your attention.

When I was eleven, I had a transformational experience, though at the time, I didn’t realize it.

My sister, my best friend, and I went to our small local Anglican church every Sunday. Sunday school had been cancelled. No budget, no volunteers, so we had to sit in “big church” with the adults.

We’d sit in the front pew, trying our best not to laugh. (I’m a comedian’s dream, so this was no small challenge.)

Despite our laughter, some of the church messages must have seeped in, because one Sunday I made a life decision.

I decided I would be good.

It felt almost holy, like a beam of light broke through and I heard music. Being good, I thought, would be my purpose in life.

I’d been taught that being good mattered.

And maybe that’s why it struck me so deeply this week, on my coaching call, hearing how many of us, especially women — coaches, healers, helpers, and guides spend our lives struggling with the feeling that we’re not good enough.

That something is wrong with us.
That we are somehow bad.

And here’s the thing I’ve noticed:
It’s usually the people who are genuinely good, the kind, self-aware, heart-centered ones who question themselves the most.

We’re so good that when someone criticizes us, or when we stumble or fall short, as all humans do, we take it as proof that something really is wrong with us.

We’re so good that we spend decades trying to be better, more worthy, more deserving.

But if you’ve ever believed you weren’t good enough, I want you to know this:
You are spectacular.

The very fact that you question your goodness means your heart is trying to get your attention.
It’s whispering, Nothing is wrong with you.
Something is profoundly right with you.

And here’s the paradox:
It’s often those of us who can see the light in others who struggle the most to see it in ourselves.

Because your greatest wound is what leads you to your deepest calling.

So, just for a moment, imagine this:
Suppose something was right with you not wrong with you?
How might that change your life?

This is your Soul Nudge.

With big love,

❤️

Bev

You were never broken. You're brilliant!