My Approach

Some of us have always felt a deep sense that there is something we are here to contribute.

And yet, in trying to fit in and belong, we learn to disown parts of ourselves, discount our natural gifts, and become who we believe we need to be.

Then life changes.

A role ends. An identity no longer fits. What once felt meaningful no longer feels like enough.

And we find ourselves asking:

Who am I now — and what do I want to do with who I am?

I believe answering that question asks us to rediscover who we are and reclaim what we may have set aside along the way.

For women whose voices have been silenced across cultures for thousands of years, this is more than figuring out what to do next. It is a journey of remembering, reclaiming, and stepping forward as who we truly are. 

The Core Problem I See

Many people live lives that look good from the outside, yet feel incomplete and unfulfilled on the inside.

Something essential feels missing, but we don’t have clear language for it in our culture.

I call this being purpose adjacent.

You may have done all the “right” things. Built a career. Helped others. Been responsible and capable. And still, something in you knows this isn’t fully it.

What’s missing is purpose alignment.

Purpose alignment is when you’re being who you were meant to be and doing what you were meant to do. It's when your inner truth and your outer life begin to make sense together.

What My Work Does

My work helps women move from purpose adjacent to purpose aligned — from trying to figure out what they should do next to understanding who they are now and what is theirs to do.

When that shift happens, something changes.

Energy returns.
Clarity deepens.
Joy becomes embodied rather than postponed.

This work didn’t come from a single training or method. It emerged over decades of lived experience, study, deep listening, and walking beside women who were capable, successful, and quietly discontent.

Women who had been mothers, professionals, daughters, and spouses, and who sensed they were meant for something more, even if they couldn’t yet name it.

Who You Were, Is Not Necessarily Who You Are Now

One of the most important things I’ve learned is that you can’t create a new chapter from an old identity.

We become who we are through the lives we’ve lived — the roles we’ve played, the expectations we’ve absorbed, the choices we’ve made, the things we’ve survived and the ways we learned to belong.

But we also change.

And sometimes our understanding of ourselves doesn’t change with us.

That’s why I don’t begin by asking, “What do you want?”

Before we try to figure out what comes next, we look at who you are now.

Your life has been leaving clues all along.

The Soul’s Calling® Method

The Soul’s Calling® Roadmap is the foundation of everything I do.

It reflects the natural inner journey we move through when an old identity no longer fits and we begin to sense that something else is calling us forward.

It names the journey through endings and uncertainty, the rediscovery of who we are, and eventually the movement toward what comes next.

This roadmap isn’t a set of instructions. It gives language to an inner journey many women recognize from their own lives.

The Soul’s Calling® Method grew from  more than twenty years of helping people make meaning from the experiences that have shaped them.

The Soul’s Calling® Creed

The Soul’s Calling Creed gives language to this journey.

Inspired by the spirit of the 12 Steps, it reflects the moment when we stop abandoning ourselves for belonging and begin listening for who we were always meant to be.

The Creed isn’t something to memorize. It’s something to recognize yourself in.

How This Shows Up in My Work

This approach shapes everything I do.

I don’t begin by trying to help you come up with a plan for your next chapter.

We begin with your life.

What has ended.
What has shaped you.
The roles and rules that may no longer fit.
The gifts you’ve discounted because they come naturally.
The desires you’ve explained away.
And the wisdom your life has been offering you all along.

Because before you decide what comes next, you need to be able to see who you are now.

I currently work privately with a small number of women who find themselves in this territory.